Tag Archives: Big Blue Marble

What do you leave for this world?

What’s the legacy you leave for this world when your time on this earth as a breathing, living human being is done?

Did you love enough? Were you kind enough? Did you give it your best effort each day? Did you, in James Taylor’s song, “…shower the people you love with love…”? Did you overcome your fears? Did you give all to what you do best? Did you take care of yourself (not selfsih), so you could better take care of those who needed it? Did you hold the door for the one behind you? Did you give a stranger a hug when they needed it? Are you grateful for the gifts you’ve been give – like waking up each day to give it your best, again?

Or, did you give up, give over, slip down that slippery slope of anxiety, selfishness, hate, bigotry, and loathing? Did you tell a story about someone or something when you only knew less than half the whole story? Did you knee-jerk respond to someone you care for when a moment to step back would have stopped the words that you can never take back? Did you forget that your life is worth living?

It’s always a matter of deciding to do this rather than that. To say, or not say, something. It’s always a choice. Every day, it’s always a choice.

What’s your legacy?

6:41 AM ~ poem

 

Early AM Light - Providence, RI - August, 2016 - photo credit - Jessan Dunn Otis, Writer\

 

 

 

 

6:41 AM ~ poem

In this early morning, break-of-a-new day light

In this cooling, new-day air

I could live

forever.

 

(c) poem and photo credit – Jessan Dunn Otis|Writer – August 30, 2016

#ActsOfKindness – essay

Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. ~ Mark Twain #quote

Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. ~ Mark Twain #quote

#ActsOfKindness – essay

More and more, recently, it seems to me that what’s needed are more acts of simple courtesy and kindness. A smile to a stranger. The door held open for the next person behind you. A call and/or handwritten note to a loved one you know is not in such a good place today; or, to whom you’ve not reached out for too long. The simple “Please.” and “Thank you.”

With that in mind, via various social media, I’ve been posting with the hashtag #ActsOfKindness.

If you, like me, agree that our Big Blue Marble could use just a little more courtesy, a little more kindness, please be free to use and/or post using #ActsOfKindness.

Thanks, in advance and anticipation ~

~ Jessan

It’s About The Conversation

So much has changed since I first came on-line many years ago.  At first, it was all about “getting your message” out – the right format, the correct keywords, long-tail, SEO, tagging and on and on.

Over time, thank goodness, there’s been a shift – from “permission marketing” (thank you, Seth Godin) to “Return on Relationship” (#RonR) (thank you, Ted Rubin) and more – i.e. Vincent Wright, Jay Deragon, Adam Kovitz, Mark Traphagen, Michael Iva, Deap Khambay, and Arianna Huffington – to name only a very few of the many who have influenced and informed me.

Over time, for me, it’s become more about passion and compassion, about refining one’s vision and perfecting one’s skill(s) and supporting what speaks to one’s heart, not only to what adds to one’s pocket.

True enough, we all have to live – keep a roof over our head and some food on the table.  However, with the fluidity and ease of social media, we can, indeed, do both; and, in the process, become more enlarged, more compassionate, more informed and empathetic.  “Our world” transforms into a greater understanding of the larger world

Dancing Woman

Dancing Woman

in which we all share – our Big Blue Marble.

The exchange of ideas, issues, TedX talks, Playing for Change videos, posts, sharing, “Liking”, and RTing has become, for me, ultimately about conversations.  That we’re talking with each other, not just to each other.  That we’re not, simply, “marketing”, we’re (each in our own ways) creating possibilities for change because we’re stepping outside our own skins, revealing our stories and discovering just how similar and related we are.  It’s about the conversations.

What say you, please?